Why am I fixated on people who don’t care about me?

It doesn’t make sense. I’m surrounded by great people. Supportive friends and family, colleagues who I admire and respect, and a dog who literally worships me at my feet. And yet I am crazy about a man who treats me like shit. A wise man once said: ditch thee who treats you like shit. Makes…

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The Left-Brained Mistress and why all that is bullshit

When you google all the “rules of being a mistress” and read enough of the search results, you think you’re a well equipped expert to serve the role. What you don’t foresee is how disagreeable the Right Brain can be towards all your efforts to intellectualize your little adventure. You see, one of the things…

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There’s just things that are unknowable that we need to let go of

A lover who begins to fade away is one of life’s greatest mysteries. You keep hanging on demanding answers and you get unhelpful responses like “it’s not you, it’s me”. Being paid lip service is a bitch when all you really want is honesty. You feel entitled to it, in fact. But life’s unfair. At…

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